Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Perfection...

Guest Post...by E.P...take a look into Her Thoughts...


Recently I purchased the new Tank "Now or Never" CD (might I add that if you're into classic R&B then it's definitely worth the buck). There's a song on there called 'Celebration' that features Drake. The song describes how Tank wants to celebrate all the things he loves about his woman with some romantic time alone. Overall, the song is a hit. It's pretty much on repeat in my car when I take a ride :)

The bar that stuck out to me the most was when Drake said "They say real girls ain't neva perfect, perfect girls ain't real."

You know what's so crazy about this? Mostly EVERY song or rap nowadays about a lady gives this message to its' listeners. In a nutshell, don't sweat the fake because we see right through it. Ok.... so you say this, but do you really mean it? I mean, let's be realistic. Anyone who will say looks don't matter is telling the lie of all lies. The first thing that attracts you to someone is their physical appearance. From there, you begin to unveil their personality, values, etc.

So if "real girls ain't neva perfect" and "perfect girls ain't real", then why waste time with the fake perfect ones? I mean, you already know that the alluring sight of perfection (long weave, fake eyelashes, booty pads, padded bras) is going to lead to disappointment, then why even try? Why does the girl that is fake from head to toe (literally) get the celebration versus the all natural woman?

My conclusion.... you don't want to be challenged. You want someone who looks awesome next to you, but treats your friends and family like strangers. You want someone who spends most of her time trying to look good for everyone, but you. You want someone who enjoys spending money even though she has a bedroom in her mom's house and no source of income on her own. True some women enjoy playing the dress up with additions, but most women are proud of the fact that their significant other doesn't look like he's seen a ghost when they wake up in the morning. Just an observation....

Like it, love it, hate it.... just listen...